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Attraction and BeLonging

einstein-and-chaplinWhile Albert Einstein insisted, “Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love.”, perhaps it’s time to reconsider his rather vehement disavowal.

Think about it; gravity is a force that attracts any objects with mass, and regardless of our size we humans are pretty ‘massive’. Stop and imagine this fact: at this instant you are actually pulling on every other object in the entire universe!

Now, roll your brain back to middle school, or whenever it was that you first learned about Newton’s Laws. Do you remember Third Law? Right! It’s the rule that states, ‘For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.’

Pause for a moment and lean into your heart and remember what it feels like when a knee jerk reaction –your own or someone else’s– sets up the conditions for rejection or abandonment, rather than a heart driven response between equals?

So ask yourself, what if the opposite of gravity –Love– is levity?

Love is an attractive principle. For most of us being loved and loving defines what is meaningful and measurable in our lives. Think about the times when you’ve witnessed a loving relationship that seemed to be a sheer demonstration of true love being a  karmic or cosmic connection! How often do we reject love because it defies social logic or what we think is ‘acceptable’?

Authenticity that comes from our core generates Loving. When that special indefinable something is allowed to draw close enough to tug at our heart strings, we almost magically lighten up! It’s what my friend Jahnavi Lisa calls ‘honey bunny boo time’! It’s power lifts ours attitudes, positively changes our behaviour, and immediately begins to improve the quality of our life. (This also goes a long way to explaining why someone in the throes of first, new or renewed love, is often little more than entertainment value…)

Food for Thought

What happens to your love of life or another when you lose your sense of humour?

What is the opposites of this kind of gravity in your life?

How would making laughter, love and fun fundamental attract others into your life in a way that lets you experience the joy of BeLonging? 

6 comments on “Attraction and BeLonging

  1. Harlon says:

    As always, very illuminating. Love, Harlon


    1. Lynnclaire says:

      Hey guy! It is so wonderful to be writing again! I’ve relocated my EU nest to Marbella, Spain in the last few weeks, and the months preceding –February to August– were wild, and writing just had to be relegated to scribbling in my dreams until autumn! Much love to you!

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      1. Harlon says:

        Looking forward to speaking over the weekend or when I can catch you. Spain sounds like a nice choice. I hope the wild times were also good times. Love to you also, Harlon


        1. Lynnclaire says:

          🙂 as always to connect Harlon. I’m teaching tomorrow and Sunday, but will be free closer towards Friday, in bliss at Lake Tahoe. How about making time to talk then? I have team members flying in Saturday, the 1st, so time is tight after that until my BFF’s wedding on the 8th. The 9th or 10th would also work! Wild is always amazing, even if I am jetlagged! xox L

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          1. Harlon says:

            I’m free right now….totally free, so you say when, or I will just try to contact you. Yes. It’s time. 🙂 Harlon


            1. Lynnclaire says:

              Harlon, it makes me sad that we continue to pass like ships… right now it is flooding on the Costa del Sol, a physical inundation that matches the emotional and mental storms that have been raging since early November… I’ll look for you on Skype and just ring through when possible. Joy to you my friend, a man who is able to tap into a font of patience like no other 🙂


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